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My Child Did Badly in Mocks - What Should I Do Next?

  • Writer: Dr Anna York-Weaving
    Dr Anna York-Weaving
  • Feb 2
  • 4 min read



Mock exam results can come as a shock. Many parents feel blindsided when results come back lower than expected especially when revision seemed to be happening and there were no major concerns raised beforehand. It can feel unsettling and suddenly urgent.The instinctive reaction for many families is to act quickly. We need to fix this. Often that means booking a tutor.


Before taking that step it is worth pausing. Mocks are a problem-solving situation. The teaching has already happened. The information has already been delivered. If exam performance is weaker than expected, something in the learning system has not gone right.


Until you understand what has not gone right, adding more information or extra tutoring does not necessarily fix the problem. This is where I come back to my five-pillar academic coaching framework, which focuses on the key factors that underpin exam performance. If one pillar is weak, performance suffers, even when effort is high.


If you would prefer to hear me talk through this thinking in more depth, you can listen to the full solo podcast episode where I unpack these ideas and explain how I use my five-pillar framework in practice.


🎧 Listen to the episode here: Apple Podcasts or Spotify


🗒️ Pillar 1- How the information was learned


The first pillar is how the information was actually learned.


Many students feel confident because content looks familiar. They have read the notes, seen the material before and recognise topics when they appear. That familiarity can be misleading.


Exams do not test recognition. They test whether students can retrieve information accurately and apply it under pressure. This depends on how the material was processed during revision. Simply reading or highlighting notes is rarely sufficient.


More useful questions to ask are:


  • Were proper revision notes created or was revision mostly reading and reviewing?

  • Was information paraphrased and simplified or kept in its original form?

  • Was retrieval practised or did revision rely on recognising content?

If learning has not been encoded securely, exam performance will not reflect the time spent revising.


⏱️ Pillar 2 - Time management & Revision planning

The second pillar is time management and planning, and this goes far beyond whether your child revised a lot.


  • Was there a clear revision plan in place?


  • Were subjects and topics agreed at the beginning of the week, or was revision decided day by day?

  • Was there a balance between passive learning and active learning. Or was everything reactive?


What I very commonly see is one of two extremes. (1) Either revision is not planned properly at all, so students drift, panic and avoid the harder tasks. (2) Or revision is over planned. When students realise they cannot achieve it all, they panic. The common response becomes, if I cannot do it all, why bother trying. And that stops revision altogether.


Good time management and the creation of a revision plan are essential tools for academic success, as long as it provides flexibility and down-time for relaxation.



🧠 Pillar 3 - Focus & Environment


The next pillar is focus, and this is where environment becomes crucial.


  • Where was your child revising?


  • Did they have a consistent desk or workspace?


  • Were they revising in the same place each day?

  • Were distractions nearby? Was the phone on the desk, in the room, or elsewhere?


Even strong revision plans fail if focus is constantly broken. If attention is fragmented learning will be fragmented too. And no amount of extra work compensates for low quality focus.



📱Pillar 4 - Social media & Screen time


Screen time plays a significant role in focus and learning.


High levels of screen use, particularly social media, train the brain to switch attention frequently. This makes sustained concentration in exams much harder.


Important questions to ask:


  • What are the rules around phone use?


  • When is the phone allowed?


  • How much screen time is actually happening each day?


When mock results are disappointing, this is often the point at which parents need to make decisions about boundaries. That might include when phones are allowed, how much screen time is reasonable during exam periods and whether there are protected periods for focused work.


In my academic coaching work, I often ask students to track their screen time to build awareness. From there, we work on realistic ways to reduce it while maintaining balance and rest. If students want academic success and they want to be an all rounder with proper breaks and rest, then some tough decisions do need to be made.


⚜️ My Academic Coaching Tip - remove one heavily-used app and, instead, view it through the web-browser.




💪 Pillar 5 - Motivation & Long-term vision


The final pillar is motivation.


Motivation does not come from telling students to try harder. It comes from having a reason, applying to a top university or landing a dream job. If revision feels like endless books with no bigger picture, “I just have to do this”, then intrinsic motivation won’t exist. It becomes an uphill battle.


Students need a sense of direction. A bigger vision. Something that connects daily effort to a longer term outcome. Without that, even the best systems struggle to hold.


What parents can do next


If mock results were disappointing the goal is not panic. It is a diagnosis


Understanding how the information was learned, how time was managed, what the focus and environment looked like, what role screens played and whether motivation is anchored in something meaningful.


This is exactly where academic coaching fits.


Academic coaching looks at the whole system, not just subject content, and helps students build learning habits that translate into results.


How academic coaching can help


Academic coaching is not about adding more content or increasing pressure. It focuses on how students learn, not just what they learn.


In my work I use my five pillar academic coaching framework to diagnose underperformance and transform how students learn and perform in exams.


By strengthening learning systems students are able to turn effort into early progress and approach exams with greater confidence and control.


If you are concerned about your child’s mock results, I offer a free 30 minute consultation where we can talk through what is specifically holding your child back and next steps on transforming the way they learn.


You can book your free 30-minute consultation at the top of this page.



With warmest regards,

 

Dr Anna York-Weaving

Academic Coach, Scientist and Founder of York-Weaving Education


 
 
 

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